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Daddy Who?

10/28/2015

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As always, my four year old son keeps me on my toes and causes me to search God’s word for parables of teaching. The more that I write, the more I realize that God speaks through everything and ALL the answers are in His word. He woke up early with me recently and was watching me get my day started. As I began to make my coffee he spoke.  He said, “You don’t have to have coffee every day, Mommy. It has too much sugar.” I looked at Him and said, “Okay Dr. Rimpsom.” He said, “No, Daddy Rimpson”. What? I couldn’t believe, for one, that he was watching how much sugar that I was using, and two, that he was trying to be my daddy! I found it interesting that he chose the authority of the father to be more influential than that of a doctor. I also found it interesting that he understands the need for the father to correct and train his children. He didn’t just tell me not to do something; he also told me why it may hurt me (the heart of a true teacher).

Proverbs 4:1
Hear, my children, the instruction of a father, And give attention to know understanding.

Children desire correction even though it may not seem so at the time. They know that when we correct them it is because we love them and don’t want to see them get hurt.

Proverbs 3:12
For whom the Lord loves He corrects, Just as a father the son in whom he delights.

We correct them in love because we delight in them. We want to see them do well on their journey through life. As we delight in them, they are proud that we are their parents. They look up to us because they trust that we are teaching them the right things. At a young age, didn’t you always believe everything you’re parents told you?

Proverbs 17:6
Children’s children are the crown of old men, And the glory of children is their father.

We must represent our Heavenly Father well. How we parent our children will leave an impact on the way that they view God. We are to give them good gifts naturally and spiritually for their mind, body and souls. We need to feed their spirits with the Word of God , and instruct them in the way of the Lord.

Matthew 7:11
If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!

When they can trust us to give them the truth and they know/understand that we love them and have their best interests at heart, then they can perceive how much more God must love them.

John 8:38
I speak what I have seen with My Father, and you do what you have seen with your father.”

Just as Jesus only spoke what Father God showed Him, our children do what they see us do. The Father is truly an important role in a child’s li
fe and carries much authority. Some don’t have earthly father’s present (this is the work of the enemy). In this case, mothers have to take on the role as the spiritual head and point their children to Father God. God will not forsake any of us, even our little ones!

Father God we thank You in the name of Jesus for wisdom concerning raising our children. We thank You for Your correction and instruction that shows that You love us. Forgive us for not always following Your example and showing our children how Your word says to act. We honor Your authority and asked that our children will Honor their Father’s and Mother’s authority. Turn the hearts of the father to the children and the hearts of the children to their father. Restore honor in families. Help us lead our children closer to You. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!

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Did She Just Stomp And Say No?......

10/21/2015

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The will of God is not something that we stumble on accidently. Even as adults it is not always clear or easy to make decisions according to God’s will. We have to overcome our own fleshly will and seek God’s Word to understand what He wants for us. We are to move forward with peace as confirmation that we are on the right path. Our children, on the other hand, have no clue of what this looks like. Their entire being, sometimes exudes chaos. They are often all over the place and if left to their own devices would be in much harm and destruction. They learn from the example that we set, the boundaries that we make, the discipline that we give, and what we teach them (intentionally and unintentionally). We have to show them what peace feels like. My one year old daughter seems to be advancing very fast. She obviously is trying to catch up to the other two toddlers. In doing this, she is learning her voice and understanding what her likes and dislikes are. She also wants to express what she does and doesn’t want to do. Her new thing is stomping her one leg and saying “No” when I tell her to do something. Imagine my surprise the first time she did this. I have never had any of my other children challenge me at such an early age. Now the action of the disrespect that she is exhibiting is by no means cute, but I couldn’t help to be tickled by her sudden realization of her own will. It is so hard to discipline them in all of their cuteness sometimes, but what seems cute now could lead them to destruction later. If we respond inappropriately by laughing or showing our amusement, it will only feed the behavior. We have to put the Word of God in their hearts and apply it to their lives. This will activate God’s will on the inside of them. We have to live as an example of the Word so they will see what God’s will looks like. We have to be humble, have a heat of repentance, be forgiving, and show mercy. We have to remove the chaos from their souls with prayer and application of God’s Word so that they know what peace feels like. I wonder does God ever want to laugh at our own will. Does He ever turn his head and compose Himself while He gently corrects us. God knows that we want to be in His will and don’t always know or want to know what is best for us. Sometimes our foolishness seems right because we haven’t yet caught the revelation of what the Word says about our situation. God always has a way of taking the consequences of our foolishness and teaching us how not to act. When my oldest daughter was around seven years old I remember her asking me “Mommy, who’s side are you on? Are You on God’s side or the devil’s side?” She said, “There is no in between, there is either one or the other.” We have to teach our children to give their whole hearts to Jesus! Every decision leads to either life or death. God is merciful and will work our process out through our mistakes, but we have to have a heart towards Him to receive His correction and understand That His will is for our best. We don’t want to stomp our feet at God and tell Him no or he will surely let us learn from the consequences. Thank God that His mercies are new everyday and he always gives us a chance/choice to get it right just as we give our children a chance/choice to get it right the next time after we discipline them. It’s something how discipline will make you think twice before making your next choice.

​Romans 6:23
For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Deuteronomy 30:19
I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live;

We have to teach our children how to choose life. We must teach them that everything that looks good isn’t good for them and everything that seems right isn’t right.

1 Corinthians 10:23 (NLT)
You say, “I am allowed to do anything”-but not everything is good for you. You say, “I am allowed to do anything” –but not everything is beneficial.

Proverbs 16:25
There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death.

Proverbs 21:8
Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, But the Lord weighs the hearts.

God wants our best so that He can give us His best. We have access to the fullness of the cross. The inheritance of God is our portion. It is our right as children of God and will be passed on to our children by us. We have the responsibility to mold them, train them, pray for them, and prophetically speak over them as they navigate the will of God for their own lives.

Father, we thank You for our children. We thank You that You have entrusted us to activate Your purpose for their lives. Forgive us for not always being living examples of Your Word. Help us shape them into vessels that will carry Your perfect Will as they pursue the purpose that You have placed on the inside of them. Show us how to discipline justly while showing mercy and being forgiving. Help us not feed their foolishness by encouraging them with laughter when they are doing wrong. Give us wisdom and strategy to train them in knowing how to make decisions according to Your word and confirmed by Your peace. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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Uh Oh, It's Too Quiet!

10/14/2015

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My 2 year old is finally at the point of almost being completely potty trained. She just became tall enough to open the door herself and is independent enough to get the stool to reach the toilet, flush, and move the stool to wash her hands. She had been doing such a good job that I started to let her go by herself with the door closed so that her baby sister doesn’t follow her in. The other day I was washing dishes and the house seemed so peaceful. I enjoyed it for a moment, and then suddenly I panicked. Have you ever heard of the calm before the storm? Having 3 children 4 and under, you realize that when it is too quiet, there is something wrong. My 3 year old was in the bathroom with her baby sister. It was a whirlwind of water, toothpaste, soap, and toilet paper that they managed to play with quieter than they ever played before. My first emotions were anger and frustration, thinking about how they could’ve hurt themselves and also about the mess that needed to be cleaned up. Then I began to think about the enemies tactics. I thought about how he waits for the perfect opportunity to tempt our kids. He waits until we are not looking or paying attention and he makes their curiosity stir until they have to fight to resist (he does the same thing with adults when we are alone).  This is why it is so important to train our children boundaries and consequences. It is also important that we teach them integrity (what are they doing when nobody is looking). God never gives us more than we can bear.

1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.

So as parents, we shouldn’t give our children more responsibility than they can bear. We have to study them and know their growth and increase them according to their maturity. Otherwise we are setting them up for failure. I believe that I have made this mistake with all of my children. They show the smarts and ability to do something so I let them try before they have reached the maturity to handle the responsibility. (Wow, that’s a word for the church)! God wants our children to be successful. We have to be good stewards over their lives until they are old enough to make their own decisions and exercise their free will. It takes a lot of prayer and patience being a parent!

​Father, we thank You for Your revelation. Continue to show us strategy in raising our children through everyday circumstances. Forgive us for not showing patience or exercising discernment when assigning our children to new things. Help us be more aware of their maturity so that we don’t set them up for failure. Help us give them the tools that they need to grow, make good decisions and resist temptation. Help us stay focused on Your will for their lives and not what would seem easier or more convenient for us. We want them to be successful and reach full maturity. Help us not stunt their growth, but show them how to thrive. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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Wanting To Go On Strike!

10/7/2015

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Being a mother is a selfless, sometimes unappreciated, exhausting, never ending job. This is not to downplay a dad’s role, just talking from a mommy’s perspective. Every so often, in the midst of the busyness of everyone’s schedule things start to get a little off. My oldest girls are quickly approaching young adulthood and the little ones mimic everything that they do. At times when they are full of themselves and become disrespectful, my heart cries wondering what I’m doing wrong. The house seems to be in complete turmoil. Sitting in my own frustration thinking that I’m going to go on strike until they meet my demands, I begin to think about Jesus. What if Jesus went on strike? We would all be in big trouble! I’m sure that He often looks down on me and just shakes His head wondering when am I going to catch the revelation of what he is doing in that moment. I’m sure He is not happy with everything that comes out of my mouth and is sometimes disappointed with my decisions. Regardless of how I’m acting or what I am doing, Jesus never gives up on me. He gently corrects me, makes a way for my deliverance, picks me up and puts me back on track. Jesus was denied, mocked, beat, bruised, disrespected, spit on, betrayed and more unto death. That didn’t stop Him from going to the cross for us. Even if we disobey Him today, it wouldn’t stop His love for us. He wants the best for us and will never leave us, and it hurts Him to see us suffer from our own bad decisions, just as it hurts us to watch our own children suffer. We can’t save them from all the mistakes in life. We can only establish the foundation with the Word of God, give them tools to help them be successful, pray for them continuously, and give them unconditional love. The rest is up to them. We ultimately do not have a choice in their decisions. Their lives are in God’s hands and their decisions are between them and Jesus. We set the rules and boundaries in our homes. We come up with the consequences and they decide whether they are going to suffer them or not. We can’t go on strike and we can’t give up on them. Mommies, you are more appreciated than you know. When they are old enough to realize all of the sacrifices that you made in order for them to succeed they will honor you. When they have their own children they will understand your disappointments and frustrations. They will come back and ask for your forgiveness; just as I did with my mother (I was horrible). They will rise up and call you blessed. Be encouraged. Do your best. Keep Jesus in every situation and it will all work out for your good!

Galatians 6:9
And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we don’t lose heart.


Father, we thank You for Your unconditional love. We thank You that You never leave us nor forsake us. We thank You that You never give up on us. Forgive us for wanting to give up on our children and for wanting to go on strike. We know that Your grace is sufficient and today we ask for more grace and wisdom in every situation that we face. Keep us looking at the cross so we remember what unconditional love looks like. We will not grow weak or give up because we know that in Your timing that we will see the fruit of our labor. Our children belong to You and we trust You with them. In Jesus name we pray, Amen!

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    Bonnie Kay Rimpson

    Mothering six children is not an easy task, but by God's grace it's one of my greatest assignments. I have a lot of experience at making mistakes and letting God correct me. I pray that you can learn from my trials and grow into the parent that God created you to be.

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