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Unusual Restoration

9/21/2016

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Last week my 3-year old daughter got a wad of bubble gum stuck in her hair. My threat to her has always been that if she doesn’t keep it in her mouth and it gets stuck in her hair, that I would have to cut her hair off. This piece of gum was smashed in there good from her trying to get it out herself instead of telling me. It was also closer to the top of her head than the ends, so I really didn’t want to cut her hair that short. I decided to go with the old home remedy of using peanut butter. Somehow peanut butter breaks down the gum and slowly allows the gum to be removed with much patience.
 
I would have thought my decision not to cut her hair would have pleased my daughter. Instead, she was terrified and disgusted that I wanted to put peanut butter in her hair. She threw the biggest fit that I have ever seen. She screamed, cried, and pulled away. I had to get my husband to hold her in place so I could work the process without puling all of her hair out. If my neighbors could hear her, they probably would have thought that she was being tortured. I couldn’t understand her response. It was all in her head. There was nothing painful about the process.
 
Of course, this made me think on a spiritual level. First, she knew that she was wrong and didn’t want to get in trouble, so instead of coming to me, she tried to fix it first but made it worse. How many times have we done this with God? We do something out of His will and mess up, but instead of bringing it to Him so that He can fix it, we make things worse by acting in our own strength.
 
Then her response was over exaggerated because of her own guilt of knowing that she didn’t follow the rules. She was mad at herself because she knew if she had listened, that she wouldn’t have to go through the uncomfortable process of restoring what was damaged. Don’t we always get more made at ourselves when we know that we didn’t yield to the Holy Spirit and obey the voice of God? The enemy loves to bring in condemnation which causes an irrational emotional response.
 
She was out of control! All of these things caused her to fight with super strength. She was manifesting and it took her father to hold her to calm her down. Sometimes we have to stop fighting, stop complaining, and let Daddy God wrap us in his arms and calm us down, so that we can submit to the process.
 
The process often doesn’t make sense. My daughter couldn’t understand why I wanted to put food in her hair. She perceived it as some weird punishment. She didn’t believe that it would work. I’m sure the blind man that Jesus healed thought it strange that He mixed spit and mud to rub on his eyes, but he submitted to the process and it worked. How many times have we forsaken our own healing or deliverance because the process presented before us seemed untraditional? As a matter of fact, many won’t even submit to a traditional process as simple as answering an altar call! We act like stubborn 3-year-olds who put God in a box limited to our own understanding. If we can’t make sense of it in our natural minds, we automatically reject it and think that it is not God.
 
It is time to free our minds from the bondage of this world and be transformed. God wants to bring change, but we must first let Him embrace us and show us the unusual miracles that He wants to perform in us and through us. We are in a time when obedience is a must. We can’t fix things on our own. We have to be quick to repent and willing to submit to the process that He wants to take us through. Even if it means that it seems strange and useless to us, we must know that God has a purpose for doing things the way that He does and He will get all of the glory.
 
Isaiah 55:8-9
8 “For My thoughts are not your thoughts,
Nor
are your ways My ways,” says the Lord.
9 “For as the heavens are higher than the earth,
So are My ways higher than your ways,
And My thoughts than your thoughts.

 
Ephesians 3:20
20 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us,
 
When we give him our minds and accept that He is limitless in everything that He does, we will truly live in the power of the Holy Spirit that lives within us. We must come out of our pride and take on humility. We must rebuke intellectualism and submit to the mind of Christ. We must admit where we have been wrong and repent. We must let the Father Hold us, calm us down, and bring us through our process of restoration. It won’t be as bad as the enemy has made it seem. God’s soothing balm of healing will gently rub the hurt away just as the peanut butter gently took out the gum once my daughter calmed down.
 
Father, we thank You for healing and restoration. We thank You that You always know best even when we don’t understand. Forgive us for putting You in a box and not submitting to Your process for our lives. We want to operate with the mind of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit. We want and are ready for unusual miracles signs and wonders. We are in great expectation of change that brings healing and deliverance to us and through us. Let Your healing balm saturate our hearts and work its way through every hurt and broken place. We resist the devil and submit to You. We know longer care what the world calls strange and know that you do the simple things to confuse the wise. We trust You and want You to get all of the glory in our lives. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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Have You Been Stuck In Diapers?

9/14/2016

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My youngest child is 2-years-old and it is time for the dreadful potty training days. Even though I have done it 4 times before, it still is a struggle for me. All of my children are leaders and don’t like to be told what to do. It becomes a battle of the wills. The decision is ultimately theirs. I can put them on the toilet, but I can’t make them go potty. Nevertheless, I am 7 months pregnant, and I need her to be trained before this baby gets here!
 
In my frustration, I begin to think about her frustration. All her life, all she has known is a diaper. She has been using it as she pleases with no complaints until now. Why should she have to do it different now?
 
This made me think of all the times I’ve encountered situations when there was a system in place that didn’t seem to function properly. Many times when you ask someone why they do something, they will tell you because that is the way it has always been done. Many times they are opposed to change. This will cause whatever the situation is at hand to become idle and no longer useful for the next season.
 
In order to be successful in maturing into a new season. We must be willing to do things differently. What use to work in our old assignment, won’t be enough to sustain us in the next level. We have to be willing to take our diapers off and use the potty! We have to be confident and independent in transition, using all of the tools God as already equipped us with. Babies don’t need anything tangible to learn to use the potty. God already equipped them with the ability to go. We as parents just need to train them in that ability. So it is with ours. God has been training us. Now it is time to use what He has given us! The Holy Spirit is like our pull-up that keeps us from having a messy accident. We must stop acting like stubborn 2-year-olds and let the Spirit lead us into change that will elevate us into our next season. We can then put our big girl panties on knowing that God is with us and we can embrace change and live in whatever season God transitions us into for our growth.
 

Philippians 4:12-13 (NKJV)

12 I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.  13 I can do all things through Christ[a] who strengthens me.
 
Philippians 4:12-13 (VOICE)
12 I know how to survive in tight situations, and I know how to enjoy having plenty. In fact, I have learned how to face any circumstances: fed or hungry, with or without.  13 I can be content in any and every situation through the Anointed One who is my power and strength.
 
Philippians 4:12-13 (AMP)
12 I know how to get along and live humbly [in difficult times], and I also know how to enjoy abundance and live in prosperity. In any and every circumstance I have learned the secret [of facing life], whether well-fed or going hungry, whether having an abundance or being in need. 13 I can do all things [which He has called me to do] through Him who strengthens and empowers me [to fulfill His purpose—I am self-sufficient in Christ’s sufficiency; I am ready for anything and equal to anything through Him who infuses me with inner strength and confident peace.]
 

​God gives us strength for whatever change that we face. The process might seem grueling at the time, but the benefits of the results far outweigh the annoyances of the process!

 
Father, we thank you for the process of change. Help us embrace the change for the maturity that it brings for us and for the stages in our children’s lives. Forgive us for acting like babies who want to be fed and changed instead of becoming independent and sufficient in Your sufficiency. We know that You have equipped us for every good work. Show us when we need to do things differently to get to the next place that You want to take us. Help us be sensitive and obedient to the Holy Spirit’s instructions. We know we can do all things through Your strength. Show us how to train our children using the same patience and mercy that You have given us. Let our children not only easily embrace change, but also be the change that this world so needs! In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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My Only Son

9/7/2016

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My son and I were sitting together talking when he put his hands in my face blocking my vision. I immediately told him to stop which brought on the frequently asked question “Why”. I told him because I didn’t like anybody putting their hands in my face because it is rude. His response took me by surprise. He said, “I’m not just anybody. I’m your only son”. What? He always amazes me how he thinks and processes things.
 
This made me think of Jesus being God’s only son. God did not give Jesus different rules because He was His only son. Jesus had to obey, even unto death, to fulfill God’s plan for His life. God has given us all a plan that is buried in our spirit. Our children are born with one too. It is up to us to dig it out and obey the instructions to stay on the right path. We help our children find their purpose by giving them rules and boundaries rooted by the Word of God to keep them safe from their adversary that wants to destroy them. Without a proper set of rules and instructions to follow, they will be wandering aimlessly trying to figure out who they are and why they are here.
 
Proverbs 25:2
2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter,
But the glory of kings is to search out a matter.
 
As parents, we must search our children’s gifts, talents, abilities, strengths, and weaknesses. Then we have insight on how to train them on which way that they should go. We have to do this without forsaking correction and rebuke. Just because I only have 1 son, it doesn’t mean that I should let him get away with doing things that wouldn’t be unacceptable for any other child. God favor’s us not because we are special, but because we are His. In order to get to a place of fulfilled purpose, we have to obey. If our children don’t learn to obey us first, then they will have a hard time obeying God. Obeying parents is 1 way to honor them. This will ensure children a long life to fulfill their purpose.
 
Exodus 20:12
12 “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.
 
Being a mother of 5 children, I know how hard it is to stay consistent with the rules. Sometimes it is easier to let them have their way. Although there might be exceptions due to unique circumstances, we can’t give in to laziness.
 
Matthew 7:13-14
The Narrow Way
13 “Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it.  14 Because[a] narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.
 
A life of obedience is difficult. It is an ongoing learning process. If we don’t train our children to do things the right way and not the easy way, it will lead to their destruction. None of us want that for our children.
 
I’m sure that it would have been easier for Jesus not to be crucified. That’s why He asked God to take it away, but He obeyed knowing the greater cause and victory that would come from his obedience.
 
Luke 22:42
42 saying, “Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless not My will, but Yours, be done.”
 
We want the will of God to be manifested in our children’s lives whether we have 1 or 12. Each one will play a significant and unique part in advancing God’s Kingdom. Let’s get back to the basics of pleasing God and not being concerned about pleasing our children’s flesh. They may not like it now, but they will appreciate it as they mature.
 
Father, we thank You for Your wisdom and instruction. Thank You for favoring us just because we belong to You. Forgive us for sometimes taking the easy way out instead of sticking to the boundaries of Your Word. Help us train up our children according to the purpose that You have uniquely put on the inside of them. Thank You for giving Your only son so that we may also be Your children. We choose the narrow path that leads to You. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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    Mothering six children is not an easy task, but by God's grace it's one of my greatest assignments. I have a lot of experience at making mistakes and letting God correct me. I pray that you can learn from my trials and grow into the parent that God created you to be.

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