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Unity In Marriage

6/24/2016

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It is so easy getting caught up in the hustle and bustle of our busy lives. Work, kids, chores, ministry, and regular day to day activities can leave our marriages stressed out and overwhelmed.  God knows all that we have on our plate and doesn’t want our marriages to suffer because of chaotic schedules. He doesn’t want us to be so stressed out that we begin to neglect or abuse or spouse mentally, emotionally, or physically. He wants us to be united and on one accord.
 


​Ephesians 4:3

endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
 

Our marriage should have unity by the bond of peace. Peace is the glue that holds us together. Where there is peace, the cares of this world can be dealt with appropriately and without offense. So how do we obtain this type of peace?
 


Philippians 4:6-8

6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God;  7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
 

​Peace comes by prayer with humble requests. It comes by being thankful to God and all that He is and has done for us. The verse goes on to tell us what to think about.
 


Meditate on These Things
8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.
 
 
When we set our minds on these things, we can see things from God’s perspective. We close the gate of our brains to the enemy to speak lies and give us false imaginations about our situations. We can have peace in knowing the truth, instead of making things bigger than our God and worrying ourselves into division.
 
 

Matthew 18:18-20
18 “Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.
19 “Again I say[a] to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  20 For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them.”
 
 
 
It is good to have a personal prayer time, but is important and strategic for you and your spouse to pray together. When you come together in God’s name the devil doesn’t stand a chance. God is surely with you.
 
 

Deuteronomy 32:30
30 How could one chase a thousand,
And two put ten thousand to flight,
Unless their Rock had sold them,
And the Lord had surrendered them?
 
 
When you pray together, God exposes ten times the amount of enemies. He will uncover them before they have a chance to subtlety sneak into your marriage and steal your peace.
 
I encourage you today that your problems aren’t too big for God. He has a plan and a strategy to bind those demons and loose his unity over your marriage. Seek His peace through prayer. Be intentional about agreeing together in prayer with your spouse, and watch God move in your marriage.
 
 
Father, we thank you for giving us peace as a fruit of the Spirit. Today we choose to seek peace through prayer. Forgive us for murmuring and complaining instead of coming to you. Teach us how to come together with our spouse in prayer to create a bond of unity. We want to put all enemies to flight by being in agreement. Help us to meditate on the truth instead of focusing on things that will cause chaos. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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The Best Father's Day Gift

6/17/2016

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With Father’s Day approaching, I’ve been thinking about what I can do for my husband to make him feel special. So often, mothers get spoiled for all that they do and fathers get the short end of the stick. When I think about the things that my husband likes and enjoys, nothing really compares to what I know he really needs and craves which is honor/respect.
 
Proverbs 12:4
4 An excellent[a] wife is the crown of her husband,
But she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones.
 
We honor our husband by being their crown. This is a result of how we respect him. When we expose them and embarrass them we are causing bitterness to rot their bones.  How we treat them publically will determine how they show their love toward us.
 
Ephesians 5:33New King James Version (NKJV)
33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
 
Our respect for him and his love for us work together. If you are feeling unloved, check the respect level that you have been showing and ask God to calibrate your hearts to work together.
 
1 Corinthians 11:3New King James Version (NKJV)
3 But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.


​Our husbands are the head of our house if they are following Christ. Although we are to submit to one another, we should also respect their leadership. If we don’t let them lead, then we are taking away their masculinity. This is part of the problem with families today. Men need to know that their role is respected. As a true leader, they will always consult their wife, but we need to honor them and let them take charge.

 
1 Peter 3:7
[ A Word to Husbands ] Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
 
If they are to honor us as the weaker vessel, then this means that we respect that they are the stronger vessel. Men want to feel strong. We have to stop being so stubborn, trying to prove that we can do things without them. They want to know that we need them and that we honor them as protector of our homes.
 
 
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
 
We honor our husbands with our intimacy. God created sex for marriage. If we withhold it from them for manipulation, then we are practicing witchcraft. Although there should always be agreement, if we constantly reject them then we open up a door for the enemy to come in and tempt them (1 Corinthians 7:5).
Proverbs 21:19New King James Version (NKJV)
19 Better to dwell in the wilderness,
Than with a contentious and angry woman.
 
We honor them with our attitudes. If we are always angry, then we drive them away. If he is spending more time away than with you then check to see how your attitude has been towards him.
 
 
1 Timothy 5:8New King James Version (NKJV)
8 But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
 
 
We should honor their work. If your husband is providing for your home, he is worthy of honor. There are a lot of husbands/dads who don’t. I thank God that mine works so hard!
 
 
Titus 2:3-5New King James Version (NKJV)
3 the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things—  4 that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,  5 to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.
 
We honor our husband by teaching our children good things. They learn how to honor and respect from us and we must make it a priority in our homes.  We are training them how to be productive adults. If we don’t train them naturally and spiritually they will be immature and unproductive.
 
1 Corinthians 12:25-27New King James Version (NKJV)
25 that there should be no schism in the body, but that the members should have the same care for one another.  26 And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; or if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it.
27 Now you are the body of Christ, and members individually.
 
 
When we withhold honor, suffering takes place in the entire household. When we place honor where it’s due, then we all can rejoice. This makes an atmosphere of unity, peace, and joy in the home. We all want to be respected.
 
Isaiah 61:7New King James Version (NKJV)
7 Instead of your shame you shall have double honor,
And instead of confusion they shall rejoice in their portion.
Therefore in their land they shall possess double;
Everlasting joy shall be theirs.
 
So today I declare double honor on all the husbands/dads who are making it happen for their family. May God increase your portion to double naturally and spiritually. May everlasting joy be yours!
 
Father, we thank You for our husbands. Forgive us for not honoring him in the way that you desire according to Your Word. Convict us of the areas that we need to work on and deliver us from any pride that would keep us from doing what is right. We want to be an excellent wife that our husband wears as a crown. We want to rejoice in honor placed on our husband and give him the respect that he needs to affirm his manhood.  Let our honor be a gift of everlasting joy to him. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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Solitude

6/3/2016

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​The chaotic life of being a Proverbs 31 wife can sometimes leave us overwhelmed, drained, and irritable. It is important that we find time for ourselves not just to be pampered (although that is nice too), but to get in solitude and pray.
 

​In our homes, we become superhuman. Everyone pulls on us from all directions. The hats we wear are countless and sometimes invisible to our spouse. There is an entire different stack of hats that we must wear for him. Mommy rarely gets a break, but we can’t let that stop us from being wifey!
 
 
 

Luke 5:15-16  (NKJV)
15 However, the report went around concerning Him all the more; and great multitudes came together to hear, and to be healed by Him of their infirmities.  16 So He Himself often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed.
 
 
Jesus himself had to withdraw alone to pray. Everyone around Him needed something from Him. He was well equipped to give it, but He also had a cut off point. When being drained of all spiritual resources, the only way to get refueled is by the presence of God. No amount of pedi/mani treatments, spa sessions, or shopping sprees will restore your soul. Only by prayer will we have the energy to do what we do.
 
 

Matthew 14:23 (NKJV)
23 And when He had sent the multitudes away, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. Now when evening came, He was alone there.
 
 
Sometimes, we might have to wait until everyone goes away to sleep (including our spouse). It is then we can enter into our secret place and get refreshed to be the wife and mother that we are called to be.
 
 
If we neglect prayer, by the time we get alone with our spouse we will have nothing for him. We will be missing the peace and fullness of joy that comes by prayer. We give our husbands balance. We are his help (
Genesis 2:18), his crown (Proverbs 12:4), and his favor (Proverbs 18:22). While it important for him to have his own prayer life and important for us to pray together, we still need to get alone with God. Not only will He give us strength, but also strategy and wisdom to use all of the hats that we wear!
 
 
I know your busy. I know it’s hard. I know you don’t feel like it. These are all excuses from the enemy to keep you from being the wife and mother that God has called you to be.
 
 
I encourage you today to find a place of solitude and pray. Pray for yourself. Pray for renewed strength and energy. Pray for peace and contentment. Pray for joy and compassion. Pray for endurance, perseverance, and most of all wisdom to do everything that makes you so awesome. You are an excellent wife! You are an excellent mother! You are a Proverbs 31 woman!
 
 
Father, we thank You for being all sufficient. You have everything that we need to achieve success in all that you have assigned us to do. Forgive us for trying to do things in our own strength and forgetting that only you can restore our souls. We want to give our husbands help, favor, and a crown that shows him as the king that he is. Show us opportunities to get into solitude to pray and commune with You. Help us resist the enemy that would cause us to be lazy and make excuses. We submit to You so the enemy must flee! We want to be a wife that represents Your name and gives You glory. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen!
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    Bonnie Kay Rimpson

    God has truly restored me after having a torn soul from broken relationships and even a divorce. After receiving Jesus as my Savior, God took me through a process of knowing my identity and loving myself so that I may love others. Now I am happily married to a man after God's own heart, who loves me with the love of God.

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